What is the worst thing to say to someone grieving during COVID?

"At least they didn’t suffer" or "Everything happens for a reason" — these phrases invalidate their pain and the traumatic circumstances of pandemic loss.

What should I say instead of 'They're in a better place'?

Say: "I’m so sorry. This is awful. I’m here for you." Simple acknowledgment of their pain without trying to fix it is almost always the most helpful thing you can offer.

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What Not To Say To Someone Grieving During The Coronavirus Crisis

Caroline Schrank

March 04, 2021

What Not To Say To Someone Grieving During The Coronavirus Crisis

Your words matter. Avoid these phrases when comforting someone who lost a loved one to COVID-19.

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Caroline Schrank

Caroline Schrank became a licensed Funeral Director after her father's death revealed the industry's emotional neglect. She co-founded Down to Earth Funerals, pioneering the Ripple philosophy—a holistic, wellness-inspired approach to personalized end-of-life care.

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